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These temper tantrums tend to come with a large helping of gaslighting.
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Until then, however, we must deal with cry babies throwing temper tantrums over having to bake wedding cakes for same-sex couples. Hopefully we'll reach that stage with same-sex marriage one day. Yet, nobody would dare oppose interracial marriage today and most religious folks have evolved past that. It's interesting that when interracial marriage was illegal, the Bible was also used as justification. As you can imagine, the same cast of characters constantly complain about same-sex couples being legally allowed to marry. Even if you think your friend is a monster and that you are qualified, you still shouldn't tell them that you know more about their desires than they do.Nobody is forcing them to marry someone of the same sex, either. Also, don't forget to ask yourself if you're actually qualified to be making a judgment on someone's sexuality. The next time you decide to tell a bi person that they are really gay/straight, think about what you're implying about their character. Not that there is anything wrong with being straight or gay, but there's just no question that I've had more experiences than you. Your sexual experience is an infant in comparison to mine. I got on my knees, put my money where my mouth is, and experienced an entire rainbow of sexual encounters in order to figure out what I actually liked.ĭon't come at me with your monosexual experience and think you can teach me anything about human attractions. I'd hasten to guess I've put way more effort into finding out who I am than they have. It was a hard path to figure out I was bi in a world that believes men are one or the other some self-righteous idiot coming along with their sexuality-detection device is infuriating. It's infuriating that someone can come along and think they know you better than you know yourself. And outside of that relationship - I've had a lot of sex with men! If I was gay, I'd be gay! I was with my ex-boyfriend for two and a half years we held hands, we kissed in public. It also means people assume I have a problem with being gay or that I'd somehow be embarrassed about it. Who wouldn't be angry if someone walked up to them and told them their relationship was a joke? As most people will tell you, it's not when you attack them that they get mad it's when you attack those they love. They're basically calling my relationship a joke, a lie - I love my girlfriend more than anything, and that suggestion makes me want to punch them in the face. They think I'm someone who would build a life with a person out of fear, someone who would promise a future together, all as an act so that people don't find out that I'm actually gay. That would really make me a reprehensible character. Why? Well, because by their standards - I'm a monster!īy their calculations, my girlfriend is a cover - someone I'm stringing along for my own benefit. I'm used to this misconception, and arguably, it shouldn't really bother me after all this time, but the truth is, it still makes me angry. It's a strange conclusion, as most research shows we'd probably have a better time if we were gay. A common stereotype people believe about bi men is that we're struggling to accept ourselves as gay men.